I would say my curls look like...

What's my hair type, curl pattern, Number and Letter combo? LOL. My goodness. When I first started looking into other women's natural hair experiences, I was introduced to the term of "hair type" or  "curl pattern." I guess at first I really didn't think there was a significant difference or meaning to that difference. After looking into what products, hair regimens and hairstyles go best with natural hair, I also discovered it is helpful to know what your curl pattern is. My curl pattern is mixed. Although I have no relaxed, chemically treated hair on my head, not all of my hair has reversed back to my natural kinky curl.

I wore half wigs for 2 good years. I would use a flatiron on the front section of my hair everyday. Due to that constant manipulation, my hair in the front has lost some of its curl. The front section of my hair is 2c in some parts and a 2b in others. You can see this in the photo below:

Notice the strands that are more of a wavy pattern?

The middle and back sections of my hair are 4a and 3c...but mostly 4a. Geesh!! Sounds complicated. So I thought I would just sum it up as best I could and say the majority of my hair is a combination of 3c and 4a. Have you figured out your curl pattern yet??

xoxo

Ash

My Problem Areas

I have been wearing wigs for awhile now. Probably a good three years where I wore a wig every single day. It is my protective style. I love wigs, the ease they bring and the many hairstyle options I get from them. One thing I hate about wigs is what it has done to my temples. My hair is so thin in my temple areas. This is from those darn wig clips!

Can you see all the thickness..then that one area where the hair is thin? Well after doing a little research, I found that rubbing castor oil on these areas everyday can help with hair growth. I am also refraining from using the wig clips and hopefully preventing anymore damage. I will do an update and post some picks of my results in the next month or so.

xoxo
Ash

My First CoWash

I did my first cowash the other day. A cowash, for those who are new to this, is basically like washing your hair with conditioner instead of shampoo. I used Suave Naturals. You have to really work the conditioner through your hair to get the buildup out. I used a lot of conditioner, worked it through my hair in sections from root to tip, and left it on my hair for about an hour. After rinsing, my hair felt clean but also very soft! I will cowash my hair once a week and then use shampoo once a month. This should keep some much needed moisture in my hair. We shall see :)

Hittin' the Town

Yesterday my sister and I decided we wanted to get dressed up and treat ourselves to a nice dinner. I had my outfit and makeup glammed out! Then it was time to work on my hair. Usually I will just put my natural hair in a bun then throw on a wig. But....I thought, hey I'm on a journey! Let me rock the natural tonight! What do you think?

 At first I had the back hair down with just the side pinned up. I wasn't really feeling that look and the back curls just didn't look right so I pinned the back part up too and..viola! I loved it. It was a fresh and funky/edgy look.

The curls kinda frizzed out halfway through the night but it was still cute. I think next time I will plan ahead. I'll probably braid my hair the night before then do this same style with the braids out. That way I believe the curls will be more defined and wont frizz on me. Still it was a great night with a great hairstyle! :)

xoxo
Ash

Joining the Movement

Wow the community around natural hair is so amazing! Now that I have fully grasped the lifestyle, because it is a lifestyle, I have explored how other women are doing it too. There are so many beautiful women with gorgeous natural hair out there. It is inspiring and motivating to be a part of what some might call a movement. I am gaining tips, product suggestions, style ideas and so much more. Why didn't I do this sooner??? Oh well, you gotta start somewhere. I am going to bed completely happy and satisfied with my decision to go natural!

xoxo
Ash

One Source- Hair Skin and Nails multi-vitamin

Hey All!

So I want to kick off this journey right and make sure I am giving my hair a healthy start. I figured vitamins would be an excellent addition to my healthy hair regimen. I have done a lot of research. There are many brands out there that you can try. Some are ridiculously over priced..beware. Check the labels!! Some of those $$$ vitamins don't have anymore benefits than a more cost-saving option. I choose the cost-saving option first. for the past week, I have been taking One Source- Hair Skin and Nails multi-vitamin. It is only about $5 at Walmart for 72 pills. Instructions say to take them twice a day.

 Make sure you drink plenty of water. Biotin, an ingredient in this pill used to promote healthy hair, skin and nails, can make you breakout. Look it up on some other blogs and vlogs. There is plenty of evidence out there on what can happen if you don't get enough water. As for me, I have had a water bottle at my side at all times and no breakouts yet! Yay! In about a month I plan to do a video about the results. Stay tuned!

xoxo
Ash

BC Day! I did it..kind of...

The big day had come. Big Chop day! I started to comb out my hair..and this is going to sound so bad but I was shocked at how much hair I have. It has been a long long time since I really gave my hair a good comb through. Don't get me wrong I would wash my hair, brush out the tangles and throw it in a ponytail but I never really paid much attention to my hair since having my son. My son is now a toddler LOL. So as I combed out my hair, my sister shrieked at the thought of me cutting it all off. We both examined my hair. I haven't had a relaxer in gosh..about 6 years. I considered my hair transitioned. I imagined my hair to be so unhealthy because of how traumatic the past months have been, I really haven't done the best job with taking care of myself. This hair on top of my head though, it wasn't disgustingly matted, uneven from breakage or anything else I had expected to see. So I opted out of the big chop. Please forgive me. Still I did chop off a good 2.5 inches.

Snip, snip, snip! It didn't hurt, in fact I had a smile on my face the whole time. I probably looked crazy. My sister started to get misty-eyed. Oh goodness. Still after I was finished, I felt good. I am at the beginning of a beautiful and healthy journey.  Check out the pics after the chop...

...and after a good wash..which by the way, had very minimal shedding. I can start to see the results already!!

Tomorrow is the Big Day!! BC DAY!

"Big Chop! Big Chop!"
I can hear it in my head. I am excited, nervous, anxious...READY! Hair, my goodness my hair. It has been my everything, my enemy, my confidence, my craze. It has prevented me from experiences, pushed me to gloat and also has been my crown and glory. Should it have this much power over me?? Then came the drama, and it was the first thing I neglected. My hair has been malnourished and I am ready to start fresh.

A couple of days after I decide I am at the point in my life where the BC is oh so necessary, I contemplated if the BC meant leaving 4", 2" or shaving it all. As the days drew closer, I decided I am not pretty enough to rock a short fro. I have to leave at least 4"-5". My hair is about 11". Who was that voice speaking in my head?!?! Of course I am pretty enough. Isn't that the whole point of this. I need to claim back the power I have given to this crown. Now, I am not saying I want to rock the short style forever..but I am tired of wearing the hair that isn't mine. I am tired of combing out my hair at the end of the day and cringing at the sound of neglect that comes from it. I am read for the healthy. I am ready for the real. Tomorrow is BC DAY! Can't wait. It is going to be liberating!